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Relationship
Move in with my long-term partner for the first time
Long-term — 3+ years
Context
We've been together about 2 years and the conversation about moving in has been circling for a while. It makes financial sense and we spend most nights together anyway, but I know it's a bigger shift than just splitting rent.
Goal
Think through what I'm actually signing up for before I say yes — not just the logistics, but the parts that are harder to name.
Analysis dimensions — pre-configured
Reversibility35
Upside Potential70
Downside Severity55
Downside Likelihood30
Dependency Risk65
Long-Term Alignment75
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